If you find yourself on the market in your 40s, you know how daunting it can feel.Long gone are the days of countless single friends, countless single bars, and endless time on your hands.
“Take some time to be alone, be comfortable being alone and with yourself, and decide what it is that you really want out of your next relationship,” suggests Jane Coloccia, author of Some people like to meet potential dates at bars or cafes. Others prefer to go looking for love—or at least fun—online via the use of a dating app.
And if you’re fretting your outdated style game, change that immediately after reading The 20 Definitive Style Rules for Men Over 40.
Turning 40 means you’ve been losing testosterone for up to a decade.
While being authentic is key, being a pill or a grouch is unlikely to have people salivating to spend an evening with you.
More importantly, negativity is indicative of pain, which, by your 40s, you’ve probably experienced.