Soon after getting results from the experiments, Dr.Laskowski met with a group of friends she hadn’t seen since graduating from high school a decade earlier.It was my social niche, that’s what I felt.” Your identity can be altered by removing (or removing yourself from) social dynamics that reinforce your old identity.Personality is part predilection, part plasticity (ratios subject to debate), and what this spider study hints at is that if you are a docile beta male who wants to inject some alpha characteristics into your behavioral regime, you can move the needle on your suite of personality traits by getting the hell away from stale social settings in which you are known as the niceguy who doesn’t pick up women. Many a former beta male has testified to social and sexual success that accrued after he left his comfortable social circle, or his hometown, for strange new lands and new friends who didn’t know of his past nature.“I think it’s such an appealing idea that social interactions could cause social niches, and it resonates with our own experience as humans,” she said.“When you go into a group, your behavior changes depending on the nature of that group, but it can only change so far.” Yet so long.Like the rattled spiders who got confused when their social landscape shifted, the beta male will be able to more easily experiment with bold alpha moves in a new environment filled with new people who haven’t yet pigeonholed him.
Must be hard for him, but he is doing this for some reason... Also, MM has took down the NC mountain pic from her twitter header and now there is a LA beach pic in its place.But it is in the US and in the movie industry, so I don’t think anyone was shocked or upset that he’s decided to closet. This one is already marked as solved:[quote] #193-I think everyone was a little surprised that this foreign born B list mostly television actor on a very hit pay cable show was not nominated for a Golden Globe. If it was not on such a crap pay cable channel he would probably be A- list and be nominated.Anyway, he is in the closet and is such an idiot that he actually is trying to convince the world that someone is his girlfriend when she already has a boyfriend.“The longer the spiders were with the same individuals, the stronger their personalities became, and the more different they became from each other,” Dr. “The aggressive ones became much more aggressive, the docile ones more docile.” The consistency of their behaviors also mounted with time, he said, “to the point where they seemed almost rigid.” As most readers are here to learn how better to attract women in a world gone mad, the story within this story is what group familiarity and uniformity say about your chances to escape your beta box, (or, conversely, to exploit your alpha cred).Summarizing, a lack of inter-group diversity (say, growing up in an idyllic all-white suburb where Rush blasted from angst-y teen bedrooms) actually individual diversity, through the mechanism of amplifying preexisting personality differences among same-group members.Now all we see is one photo from a restaurant (where they do seem close) and photos of them separately in various destinations. Someone there hinted that he might be bisexual and I have to agree, and maybe he is someone who just simply isn't the type who wants to settle down and be with just one person for a long time?If he is indeed gay and closeted I feel sorry for him.Heughan -who is remarkably obsessed with crossdressing- and his close male friend -Luke Neal- have recently spent over a month travelling together around the world.Sam has also brought Luke to the Outlander premiere and several private parties.So Sam is feeding the samcait shippers again and posting shippery pics and articles. In one of his tweets he said that the "worst" thing about being in Outlander is to have no private life. Chemistry with Cait is real, they are very relaxed and playful together. Even if he had really discreet partners someone always knows but there is no one really trustworthy who has told anything that could be taken seriously - also I don't quite buy this beard-thing that is supposedly going on with MM.Cait's real bf Tony Mc Gill, can be quite sure that there is NO danger coming from GAY SAM. He seems to be very private, perhaps even shy or an introvert. If she was a beard wouldn't he had wanted to be seen with her more?